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Do you know your partner's love language and how to speak it? We all have a
different way of giving and receiving love, and understanding your partner's
love language plays a big role in the overall quality of your relationship.
The gifts you give your loved one on special occasions, like Valentine's
day, speak volumes too and of course you don't want to leave that up to
luck!
Dr. Gary Chapman, Ph.D., describes the five love languages as: words of
affirmation, quality time, acts of service, gifts, and physical touch. While
all of these languages are part of our relationships, everyone identifies
more closely with one or two of them. Learn how to select gifts that speak
to your significant other in their preferred language, and you'll choose the
best gift every time!
In this special Valentine-inspired blog post, we break down the basics of
love language gifting according to the five different love languages, so you
can shop for your sweetheart with confidence.
'Words of Affirmation' Gift Ideas
People with words of affirmation as their love language want your
compliments, and "I love you's" on a regular basis. This often extends to
written communications like texting and interacting on social media. Our
favorite gift ideas for words of affirmation are love letters with
meaningful messages and
jewelry engraved with words of
affection and encouragement that they can carry with them every day.
Valentine's Gifts for 'Quality Time'
People whose love language is quality time want their partner's time and
undivided attention.They need you to be an active listener, to make eye
contact and eliminate distractions while you're together. Conversation and
sharing recreational activities are also highly valued by those with this
love language. A few of our favorite quality time gift ideas are: games you
can play together, a meal
cooking crate filled
with ingredients for a romantic dinner you can cook together, or a set of
fine
glassware for
a romantic evening. A gift that includes an activity for you to share
together shows your partner that you value the time you spend with each
other just as much as they do.
Best Gifts for 'Acts of Service'
Some people are tickled pink when their significant other goes the distance
to make their life easier. These are people who believe that actions speak
louder than words. People with acts of service as their love language adore
being pampered. You may find that the best gift for acts of service is the
wonderful surprise of an at-home spa day so
they can plan a self-care day. An item of every day convenience such as a
handbag or belt bag that helps them
carry their belongings and stay organized is also appreciated by those with
this love language. Every time they reach for their bag as they run out the
door, they'll remember that you care enough to give them a gift that makes
daily life a little easier to manage.
Valentine's Gift for 'Gift Giving'
Ok, this one seems obvious, but you can get it wrong for people with gifts
as their love language too. People with this love language feel most adored
when they recieve "visual symbols of love," as Chapman calls it. They look
for the symbolic thought behind the gift--paying close attention to
presentation, uniqueness, and how the object represents the relationship.
Choose a gift that you know they'd like, something that represents their
unique style and make sure the presentation is impeccable! Pay as much
attention to the wrapping as the gift itself. And while it's not about the
price tag for them, those with this love language will appreciate a
higher-end, luxury gift when thoughtfully
chosen.
'Physical Touch' Gift Ideas
Those with physical touch as their love language feel cared for when you
shower them with physical affection, such as hugging, kissing, and snuggling
on the couch. They value the feeling of warmth and the comfort that comes
with consensual physical touch. Some of our favorite gift ideas for physical
touch love language are super
cozy blankets you can bundle up
in together, and soft
loungewear or slippers. People
with this love language adore comfort and sensual textures.
In partnership, it's helpful to know your significant other's love language
so you can express your love in the way that they best receive it. This
Valentine's day will be a wonderful opportunity for you to give your
significant other the perfect gift, one that matches their love language.
